How many times have you met a guy who treats you like a queen, is rarely argumentative, wants to spend time with you, is considerate in all things when it comes to you, lets you do pretty much anything you want, and tends to just stay quiet when you’re on a rampage? He sort of goes along to get along. The proverbial nice guy. You're willing to stand on top of a mountain and profess to the world that he’s wonderful.
But he’s not enough.
Everyone thinks you’re crazy! Sometimes you agree with them.
There is a reality some of us have to deal with --- we need the Alpha Male.
Who is he?
He’s the man comfortable with your strength and independence, but knows when and how to reel you in.
He’s the man willing to let you be the warrior princess in the eyes of the world. But when you’re overwhelmed he’ll step in, put his arms around you, and whisper in your ear “Shhhhhh….I’ve got you and won’t let you fall.”
He’s the man who knows how to be assertive with you without being aggressive.
He’s the man that knows how to subtly remind you that you’re talking to a man, not a boy, when your tongue gets away from you.
He’s the man who knows how to use his body to cage you when he sees the need for flight in your eyes because you don’t want to face head on some issue between the two of you.
He’s the man you let drive – and I’m not talking about your car.
He’s the man who handles his business, and is there to help you handle yours.
He’s the man who has your back, and you rely on his strength.
He’s the man that can be silly and romantic, but the strength of his character is always present in the room.
He’s the man who needs to hold you at night not just for you, but because he draws his strength from your belief and trust in him.
He’s the man to whom you vow never to submit but he knows you already have, and realizing it doesn’t cost him anything to let you believe that you haven't, he has enough confidence not to make it an issue.
And on top of all this…….he’s a really really nice guy!!
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