Passion Firsts

Recently, I started reading “Fifty Shades of Grey” by E.L. James, and I’m really enjoying it.  Unfortunately, I can’t provide any details because I have a friend whose just starting the book and I don’t want to risk spoiling anything. 

The book makes me think about firsts. Most specifically those firsts involving passion.

How many can remember their first real kiss? You know, the whole tongue thing. I bet not many. Probably because that first real kiss was one more of curiosity than passion.  But, I’d bet most of you women can remember the first time you had sex. This would be because your passion drove you to give it up! Your body and sensations took over.

How about the first time you performed oral sex on a man? Or, performed it the first time on a guy you may have had sex with numerous times before?  Or, maybe on a guy you just met at the club 2 hours ago?  I’m not talking about when you did it out of some sense of fair play.  He did me so I guess I should do him.  Bump that crap!! Quite frankly I don’t believe you should suck anything you don’t want to.  I’m talking about the “without thought” act.

 “I have no intention of putting my mouth there! That’s disgusting!!”….”He’s gonna be very disappointed if he thinks he’s gonna get a blow job!”…."I don’t do that with every guy I have sex with!”

But then…You don’t know what happened. You only know that you couldn’t get on your knees fast enough.  You wanted to taste him so badly you wanted to scream.  You didn’t just give him a blow job, you made love to him with your mouth. You didn’t want to stop! Your passion meter was in overdrive. Your mind on a vacation. A warping in your time space continuum!

Anal sex….HELL NO! But then you had him.  He had your heart beating so hard you thought you were having a heart attack.  You couldn’t get your breathing right because there wasn’t enough air in the world.  When he flipped you over, prepared you, and started to do his thing all you could think was….”Please! Hurry! I need you inside me!”

(stop panting….LOL)

Passion drives us to do things we never thought we’d do.  That sensation of the body that causes the mind to cease cognitive functions. 

Passion firsts.

What took you there? Was it his mouth on you? His hands? His breath on sensitive areas? Was it those naughty things he was whispering in your ear?

Were you wound so tight that you would do anything for him? Be anything for him?  Wanted to possess him?

What were some of your passion firsts? Have they become a regular part of your sexual experience? Do you  still blush or smile when you think about them?

Mmmmm….I’m remembering one right now. I was in Cancun and……